Body Want

Hi there, I'm so glad you made it!

I am a certified somatic sexologist, professionally trained to provide trauma informed, somatic sex and masturbation coaching as well as pleasure-centered bodywork.

I’ve been a sex educator for over 15 years and I absolutely love what I do. I found my way to somatic sex education as someone who had sought out body based healing from sexual trauma for many years myself. I know how it feels to need support in this.

My private practice is open to all kinds of people, from all walks of life. I specialize in working with mature queer men, masculine folks and those living with sexual trauma and disabilities. This includes neurodivergence, and mental health. Together, we will use breath, sound and movement to bring you back into your body, while inviting imperfection! All of you is welcome here. You do not have to be good.

You belong here if you want to be here.

You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
For a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.

Wild Geese – Mary Oliver

“I have been involved with the sexuality world for many years and was in a stuck and kind of scared place about my body, desires and how to move forward. Lauchie was a dream. He playfully and skillfully invited me into my body in ways that were safe enough to notice the stories I had made up and to re-story what was possible. He reminded me of my skills and magic and I am now exploring new and remembered realms of pleasure.”

Masturbation Coaching Client

“Lauchie provides a non judgemental and supportive environment for people to show up authentically. He has been wonderful in allowing me the space to deepen my connection and expand my pleasure in my body. Lauchie uses his intuition and always provides choices for exercises but they always seem to be the right ones! Lauchie has been wonderful to work with and always empowers voice and choice!”

Somatic Sex Education Client

Thanks to Caffyn Jesse, one of my mentors, and world-renowned leader in the field, for permission to use this image.

Services

Sessions are client directed. That means you get to choose your own way from the very beginning! Most times we will start with a somatic coaching framework. This is where we begin to practise having a body on purpose and navigate a path toward your goals. After establishing a clear container where you decide what we work on, we will assess which bodywork modalities would be most beneficial to you or if you’d like to stick with talk based sessions. We always move at the speed of trust and you can change your mind later.

Healing is not linear, and there is no right way to heal.

Sex and Masturbation Coaching

Sex and Masturbation Coaching is a therapeutic approach where you can be witnessed and supported to liberate your erotic experience without judgement.

Pleasure Centered Bodywork

There’s no wrong way to have a body. We co-create a container that’s just right for you, and use trauma informed techniques to expand your access to pleasure.

Professional Supervision and Development

Qualified in providing supervision and mentorship, I offer professional development within the realm of sexuality and embodiment.

Book a consultation

lauchie@bodywant.ca

Victoria, BC

Member of the Somatic Sex Educators Association

Member of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers